Shelton, WA,
August 19, 98
Howdy my dear friends,
The 'trip of princes' has continued to give us plenty of laughter
and areas to work on. Guido got the name 'Don Guido' and within
24 hours he'd completed the turning of his personality into a
royal member of our family. So the objective of our trip is clearly
stated and we can move on to the next step: 'The understanding
that princes may become kings one day and that becoming a good
king is not about being served, but being the first servant of
the people. Now that is going to be a difficult one! But I actually
hope that we are going to succeed and moreover, will have enough
time left for the third and final step. Wish us good luck, please!
Right now everybody
agrees that life is very nice - that is all but Prince Albert
who was asked (guess by whom) to rinse the lentils for tonight's
soup. Helga is at work and after a late breakfast we split up
into various activities, like sunbathing, surfing on the net,
writing letters, reading or something less strenuous like listening
to the mattress or watching cartoons. We're having a lot of relaxed
days lately.
Don Guido.....the Toilet Prince
About 10 days ago, we really got into it while visiting with
Hildi and Peter in Vancouver. They are friends of David's family
and delighted us as great hosts and door openers. We caught 'em
at the only two days when they weren't head over heels diving
into various activities. We all enjoyed feasting on great meals,
good talks and a basement apartment with shower, washing machine
and TV. Time was too short to listen to Hildi's work - she is
a composer, educating people to really listen, and a fellow countrywoman
- or hear more than a few of Peter's stories, an English man and
artistic jack of all trades who has colorful single socks to trade.
Our last feast was a blueberry pancake breakfast - my favorite
- on my birthday and the kids congratulated with a grandpa card
since they are the third generation cyclists on my trips. Peter
and Hildi called around until they had organized private accommodations
for our further stay in Vancouver.
Splitting up in three
groups we had very good and partly learning experiences. Surprisingly
- or not - some princes staying with a house full of young people
run into misunderstandings with 'em. The language barrier, not
knowing how to strike up a conversation and spreading stuff all
over the living room built up a little because things were not
addressed right away. Tensions were resolved at the end and it
ended up being a good learning experience about the unwritten
rules of how to be a guest and host.
Mary, the girls and
my host, a Dutch married to a Kiwi proved to enjoy us the more
we were around and I certainly hope to return to Vancouver one
day and visit with our new friends again. Vancouver itself is
a
Daniel, Trabi and David reading the latest newsletter
special city. It is situated just south of steep and towering
mountains with plenty of islands and beaches and the safe feeling
of a big, Canadian city - the worst part of town, 4 blocks of
drug dealing, is quite nice compared to similar areas in the States.
As usual, there was no curfew knowing the kids wouldn't get stoned
or drunk and lose their sense of reality. Don Guido's age of 20
came in handy. He was legally able to buy beer and the only one
allowed going out alone at night.
The nightlife wasn't
that great during the week though and we stayed up late watching
movies on the VCR. Watching movies is an important tool for learning
English and humanistic education on this trip. We stop regularly
for an update of what's going on and I am happy that the royalties
show interest in movies like 'Dead poet's society', 'The Power
of One', 'Gandhi' or 'Amistad'. Going hand in hand with that,
Carsten picked up my 500-page book 'O Jerusalem' about the founding
of Israel and Guido is reading 'The Power of One' in English.
Albert took over the bookkeeping after only 2 weeks into the
trip. Everybody is going to do it for 11 days and since Albert
started preparing the route in Vancouver already, the learning
experience on this trip is going to be greater and I have less
work; just a matter of letting go, I guess. Splitting up into
smaller groups at times, it's been very nice to play the old game
and get several students into navigating for a day: "I've never
been here and I can't read a map. But I can explain to you how
to do it..."
The day we left Vancouver
and returned to the States also marked me speaking English all
the time. That night a woman in Ferndale offered us to stay on
her lawn and she'd allow us to use our stoves, but not to smoke
cigarettes because of fire danger; adding to that 7 MI of detour
one way and we gratefully declined the offer. It is so nice and
easy to look for the next church and camp out quietly. There're
also fewer chances of police bothering us because churches are
private property. And the pastors aren't uptight about things
as they tend to be in Germany. The States have a history of churches
really helping the community and the church itself isn't reserved
for celebrating the mass only.
There's
an annual two-day bicycle ride from Seattle to Vancouver and while
riding the lovely road along the coast south of Bellingham we
encountered tons of bicyclists. It was so nice to greet all the
time and also receive some respect for mastering the hilly parts
with all our gear. Later on, at a supermarket in Stanwood, the
girls seemed lost. We had been there for hours already and Linda
and Jeff had approached us. They are living on Kamano Island and
invited us to stay with them. The problem of an extra 20 MI one
way was solved quite uniquely: The close-up manager of the supermarket
allowed us to store our bikes and Jeff made two trips to get us
all to the house while Linda started preparing diner. Not being
worried and liking their offer, I first got into the bus and we
drove the way back to look for Anne and Ute. We saw 'em just 4
MI away and didn't bother to get their attention.
Jeff and Linda's house
is quite big and nice, close to a state park and a rocky beach.
We all got beds! And slept deeply after a nice supper. The next
day, we talked things over and gladly accepted the invitation
to stay for another day. Our hosts and their two boys were so
nice, the weather was bad - it rained - and diner that night was
going to be grilled salmon. Man, what a feast, two of these nice
fishes ending up on the grill and then our plates, along with
mouthwatering corn stalks; am I glad that I am a vegetarian no
more. We were led on a walk to the beach and had talks
about
Jeff's work - satellites to mars! - Waldorf and traveling. Oh,
and about house swapping (?). Anybody out there in Europe, especially
Germany, who'd like to swap houses during the summer? Like for
2 or 3 weeks? If you go for it, you get a really nice treat out
on the countryside, just an hour away from Seattle and an hour
and a half from Vancouver, close to the Cascade Mountains and
basically right at the beach (Puget Sound, a kind of big bay off
the Pacific Ocean). Just write to me and I'll set up the communication!
We had decided to take the extra day from our stay in Seattle.
Linda had called a friend who invited us to stay in the basement.
Cool and rainy weather through often industrial and suburban areas
didn't excite our spoiled eyes and Seattle proved to have some
steep hills and people mocking us for cycling up there. Mary Hamilton
and her family had enough space for us and her husband drove us
to go shopping. He even paid for the beer under the condition
that he'd pick it; seeing us going for Miller horrified him...
Getting up late, we still managed to have a few hours in Seattle
and visited the huge REI outdoor store. There is one near our
probable hosts in Los Angeles and I bet even more money - shopping
money then - will find it's way into their cashier. I just wish
they had REI stores in Germany.
Our 'campground' for that night was the same church lawn we had
used the very first night in the States. It was all very easy
since we knew our way to Helga's, mostly, and arrived there in
the early afternoon. Partly, that is the girls are riding their
own pace and it usually takes quite a bit longer. There's also
the difficulty that Ute never looks forward to the cycling - and
we are on a long distance cycling trip. But Anne and her are good
companions, and this time they even started to make poems on the
various hills.
Back with Helga's hospitality
and enthusiasm we just enjoy and play. Ute, our hairdresser, shaved
Carsten's head bald and is currently working on David's dreadlocks.
Don Guido got a new nickname after he clogged up the toilet and
screamed for help when it overflowed. He doesn't like to be called
'toilet prince' (Toilettenprinz), but King David isn't fond of
'wish to be prince' (Moechtegernprinz) either and it's all part
of our fun and educationUte finally became 'Utchen' and Anne 'Anneken'.
Those names are not very smart, but nice nonetheless and if you
add princess they're in the game... Last night, long past midnight,
Princess Utchen, Prince Albert, King David and old grandpa were
sitting in the hot tub!!! having at first a bit of a bothersome
discussion and then a nice talk. I dropped speaking English and
am glad that I did, for I couldn't participate in situations like
that otherwise; and I thoroughly enjoyed it.
Lentil soup is on the
stove, annoying music is on - actually, Moechtegernprinz is the
only one who wants to listen to it and he is taking a shower,
so it's turned off - and a movie is ready. Sending smiles and
thoughts and looking forward to answers,
Grandpa (Andi)
...A few hours later
The kids read the newsletter by now and like it - partly even
more than the first one (surprise) - but Daniel also commented
that he wasn't mentioned this time. It is actually true and just
coming out of the hot tub at 1.30 AM I remembered what I wanted
to write.
Once, after I had told
one of my stories about experiencing silence, fasting etc, Daniel
said, "you've done a lot of self-education." He got it! Understanding
this is one of the most important things on the trip.
Writing a bit more,
I may also add that we were able to meet with Dan, Helga's friend
who was so kind to bring Anne's passport to Victoria. He took
some special pictures of 'group with Helga' today and promised
to scan 'em and send 'em via e-mail, so I can hang 'em onto the
next newsletter. If I get the technique right...
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